whatever on the edge of the abyssMrs Zen has been aware of this blog for some time, but, and I credit her for it, she has not read it (because I asked her not to). She allowed me to have it as a private thing. I know it is odd to consider something shared with everyone but her as private, but even the members of my family would not easily recognise me if they stumbled on it, so it is more private than you'd imagine.
I sometimes send her stuff I have written, about the kids or whatever, because I do want her to know who I am. I sent her the long post I wrote a few days ago (it was in effect a letter to her, after all). However, I noticed that she had been reading other pages, which I had not invited her to, and I have had to let her know that if she does it again, this blog will be destroyed.
In that event, I will blog again elsewhere, but I will be much more careful to hide it from her, and will never send her the good things I have written that she might like to read. If you notice that this blog has disappeared from the interwebnets and care, you will be able to obtain the new address from drzen1 AT gmail DOT com, so long as you are able to convince me that you are not in fact Mrs Zen masquerading as an interested party.
I would not mind so much if Mrs Zen was actually interested in me as a person, but that's not why she pries into my business. She is looking for stuff to fuel her grievances. The grievances are largely, as I've noted, merited, but that doesn't mean she has any right, in my view, to keep them burning using old coal from the mine of yeah whatever.